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Fearfulness gets serious. There is a
story of a preacher who feared being paralyzed.
Unfortunately, he had an accident that reduced his
ability to move but increased his worries about how
miserable his life would be when his affected leg
eventually became paralyzed. He started to pinch his
thigh, just to monitor his progress.
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At a community dinner event, he sat
next to a young lady. After a while she noticed tears
flowing from the preacher’s eyes. She heard him say,
“I knew it would happen.” When she inquired about his
problem, he said his leg had become paralyzed because
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The young lady told him not to worry. His leg was
still fine, because he had been pinching her thigh.
No wonder F.E.A.R has been used as an acronym
for “False Evidence Appearing Real!”
Here are some outcomes when fear dictates what you do
or don’t do.
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Your enthusiasm, creativity and hope suffer.
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You are likely to get or feel ill.
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Your eating, physical and social activities are adversely affected.
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Your trust in God and friends becomes vulnerable.
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Your ability to stay focused on goals decline.
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You find making decisions increasingly difficult.
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How can you combat fear? Depend on your faith. Don’t
base your success on tangible results only. Develop
a daily or weekly plan of action (gardening,
scripture reading, walking/hiking, volunteering)
that you can always accomplish regardless of what
else is going on. Talk with family or close friends
about your life expectations and concerns. Set
achievable goals and connect with new friends.
What not to do. Blame others for your condition. Do
nothing. Quit doing your routine activities
(attending social and professional meetings,
reading, physical activities and serving other
people). Quit positive thinking.
Fear is sneaky, but developing strong faith in God
and making positive goals and actions a habit will
keep fear were it belongs—away from your life. |
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The award recognizes businesses that have made integrity a core value
of their practices.
Kituku & Associations were the recipient of the
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Bits & Pieces, the motivational magazine with a worldwide circulation
will be releasing a special publication that includes Dr. Vincent Muli
Wa Kituku’s wise sayings. Watch for it.
Because of changed schedule, our calendar has room for you to bring
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If you were drowning, would you ignore your swimming skills? Would
it be necessary to have someone throw you a life preserver? Would
it be important for you to swim toward the shores?
Your responses to these questions, most likely were, NO, YES and
YES.
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But the reality is that organizations, businesses and individuals
going through downturns ignore their survival strategies, disassociate
with resources they need for quick recovery and lack clarity about
where they want to be next.
You may be wondering when your organization or business ignored
survival strategies, recovery resources or focus? You may even be
thinking, “Never!”
However, if your organization has cut its training budget and/or
marketing efforts because of the economic storm, you are ignoring
survival skills. Organizations and businesses need skilled and
motivated professionals, more so in economic downturns. That’s why
training budgets are necessary.
They need the market to know of their existence and the products and
services they offer. Marketing efforts do that.
The goals your organization and business had before getting into scary
waters are probably not what will save you. There is need for new
focus now that a new set of challenges must to be dealt with.
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Re-evaluate the reason you do what you do |
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Understand why things are not the way they ought to be |
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Set
new expectations based on prevailing realities |
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Get
busy learning and working |
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Don’t lose focus |
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When you are drowning, you need your swimming skills more than ever.
You need someone to throw to you a life preserver. You need to swim
toward the shore.
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If I went back
to college again, I’d concentrate on two areas: learning to write and to
speak before an audience. Nothing in life is more important than the ability
to communicate effectively.
Gerald R. Ford. U.S. President. |
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How to never let fear of public
speaking stop opportunities from coming to you |

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Tips on speaking in ways all people
want to listen to you and act on what you say |

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How to speak well to get a job,
promotion or your colleagues’ respect |

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Why and how effective speaking will
change
your world |
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5 proven ways to create a platform image that
captivates audiences
all the time |
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Top must know steps on how to make each of your
presentations memorable |
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11 must know keys aspect that motivate audiences to
want to listen,
learn and act |
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Why and how to turn your fear of public speaking into
a rewarding possession |
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How to gather information and tailor it to relate with
your audience expectations |
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Organizing your information for maximum audience
learning experience |
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How to use your uniqueness and deliver presentations
skillfully |
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What, why and when to use visual aids and when not to |
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9 Must know tips that will help you avoid presentation
pitfalls |
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What stories, humor and props will add to your
presentation and how to use them as an expert! |
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Let’s get the facts first. Speaking for pay is one of
the most financially rewarding careers today. The
National Speakers Association (NSA) conducted a
membership survey in mid 2007 in which 960 members
participated. The process, administered by an
independent market research entity was a web-based
anonymous survey that used 2006 data. The results are
not only reliable but also solid and great source of
inspiration for any one who wants to enjoy a lifestyle
that makes a difference while providing income in levels
millions can’t fathom.
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The average full fee for a keynote
speech, (can last 15-90 minutes) that NSA members
received was a whopping $5,000 when speaking
away from home and $3,800 when speaking in their
home community.
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The average gross income for an NSA
member from product sales (books, CDs and videos
among others), service sales (coaching, consulting
or mentoring) and speaking (keynote, breakout
session, full or half day speaking) was $177,000.
That for doing something they love. They don’t even
call it a job or career. They feel it’s a mission.
So they are missionaries who are rewarded greatly.
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Over 80% of independent
speakers (not hired and not part of regional and/or
national corporations) work from home.
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What, however, the results don’t
indicate is that the incomes shown above could be
generated by someone working (actual time spent in-front
of individual (coaching or consulting) or individuals
(speaking, training and/or selling)) in no more than 100
days of a 365 year. And for sure rarely in an 8 a.m. to
5 p.m. situation since billable full day work is from 9
a.m. to 3 p.m. That’s the truth.
What this means is that those in the speaking business
who have families, can, if they choose to, create a
lifestyle that allows them to be with their families in
the morning before children go to school and be home as
the children return home. This also gives them the
opportunity to be involved in their children’s
after-school activities.
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A unimaginable sense of fulfillment
comes from positively affecting the lives of other
people, especially on a continuous basis. Intangible
rewards come from helping others. Maybe it’s helping
organizations improve their performance in customer
service and their bottom-line. Or helping couples
overcome their marriage buffaloes (unpredictable
challenges similar to occasions when invading water
buffaloes disrupted the harmony of African villages
without warning, leaving villagers fearful and
anxious). Or steering young people away from
destructive choices and habits. The reward you gain
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Speakers enjoy accelerated professional and personal
growth generally unknown to the rest of the world.
Research-based speakers, the ones who spend time
learning the challenges and expectations of the groups
they speak to or train or the individuals they coach,
consult or mentor, learn lessons never covered in
colleges or in books. In the eleven years I have been a
full time speaker, I have been blessed to learn about
and work with organizations I had never heard of.
I never knew about American football. I have not only
worked with numerous teams, but also enjoyed being
selected the Homecoming Grand Marshal of the successful
Boise State University Broncos Football for working with
the team from 1998 to the present. Like many
speakers/writers, I can update my resume every three
months.
The question is, would you like a career (sorry, a
calling) that provides substantial income without
constant sacrifice of the time you need for your family?
Would you like to do something that you know is helping
improve other’s lives? Would you like to be involved in
a lifelong journey that introduces you to new places and
opens opportunities to learn of people and their
challenges and be inspired by unbelievable human stories
of triumph over adversity?
Now you have some inside information of a profession
that can be rewarding. Any time you get an opportunity
to improve your public speaking skills, take it. That
might be the beginning of your life’s fulfilling
mission.
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Millions of people will remember the 2010 Soccer World Cup
competition for the annoying buzz of the Vuvuzelas, the French
team’s theatrics, some really bad referee calls (especially
two against the American and English teams) and the fact that
it occurred in Africa. The team that wins the Cup will be not
be remembered by the majority of those who are watching, other
than players and diehard fans.
What the world doesn’t know is the story of many of the
African soccer players. Those are more than individual players
or teams representing their countries. They represent all boys
in the villages or city streets whose soccer balls never
bounce. Those boys need no referees, marked playing fields or
cheering fans.
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They are cheered by nature as they play in
fields of unpredictable size and conditions. Some fields are
city garbage dumping grounds while others have thorns and,
rocks. Footpaths serve as improvised village soccer fields.
The games played in these fields have natural break times as
players stop to let footpath users pass.
Playing those games leaves permanent marks as expected when
you step in those grounds on barefoot. Scars from wounds
caused by broken bottles, rocks, discarded nails and other
metallic objects, protruding roots or tree stumps are the
“badges of honor” displayed by players for the rest of their
lives. |
Soccer (football) in my days was the sport for boys. This
year’s World Cup has brought back memories of childhood
football experiences in Kangundo, Kenya. A plastic or paper
stuffed with anything soft such as torn clothes, newspapers or
tree leaves and forced into a circular shape was all we
needed.
Small rubber balls (Katulyu, as we called those manufactured
balls) could be purchased from local shops. A second grade boy
with a Katulyu controlled the world. All other boys bowed to
him so they could be allowed to play with his ball.
The first time I kicked a real soccer ball
rests in my heart with the same presence as the day my
mother brought
me my first underwear at age 13 or the day in 1970 when my
father bought our family’s first radio. Or the day Dad
brought me the first book I owned in 1973 to prepare for
the high school entrance exam. |
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How God performed a miracle one day is still a
mystery. Mr. Mwanza, our second grade teacher, announced that
we would be playing football during PE (the word soccer had
not been invented). He became more important than presidents,
bishops or witch doctors to me.
Because of his benevolent act, I started paying attention in
class. At the end of the term, I was number 10 in a class of
40 pupils. It was my fourth year in school but I was still in
second grade and had never been among the first 39 students at
the end of a term.
Over forty years have passed, but that real soccer moment
remains. I see Matthew Wambua, Kiio Maingi (who eventually
became the best friend I have ever had) and my uncle Munywoki
kicking that ball. I see myself kicking that ball and turning
my school performance around.
Having the World Cup played in Africa is letting each child
who ever kicked a makeshift ball score a goal with a liberated
spirit and hope for a better tomorrow.
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Native of Kenya, Africa, and resident of
Idaho since 1992, Vincent has been a featured speaker
and trainer at numerous Real Estate conferences and
training programs. An award winning speaker and writer,
he is one of the less than 7% of all professional
speakers to earn a CSP (Certified Speaking
Professional), the highest award for professional
speakers. Dr. Kituku has worked with championship sports
teams and trained leaders on how to inspire productivity
all the time. What sets Vincent apart is his ability to
weave life experiences in Africa with corporate America
and culture in providing solutions for personal and
professional growth. |
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Dr. Vincent Muli Wa Kituku is known as a research-based
motivational speaker. He presents motivational keynotes
and training programs on leadership, employee
motivation, overcoming buffaloes at work (change),
customer service and living and working with cultural
differences. Vincent is the founder and president of
Kituku & Associates, LLC, a business that is dedicated
to developing leaders and employees in business and in
life.
What has set Dr. Kituku apart is the ability to use his
experience in research to evaluate/assess client needs
and then tailor his keynotes/training presentation to
meet their objectives. Harold G. Delamarter,
President/CEO, Prestige Care Inc. said, "Before the
Retreat, Dr. Kituku gained as much information as
possible about our company and the industry we are
involved in. He made telephone calls to management team
members to tailor his seminar very closely to the needs
of our employees and the circumstances they face each
day in the present economy. Dr. Kituku was so widely
received in July, the decision was made to ask him to
return to again present to our company in October."
Vincent's clients list includes Cisco Systems, Micron,
Hewlett Packard, Genworth Financial, US Fish and
Wildlife, US Air Force, Women Council of Realtors and
National Association of Mental Health. He has been the
motivational speaker for the successful Boise State
Football Team since 1998. Dr. Kituku works have been
featured by numerous publications including the
Presentations Magazine, SkyWest Magazine, National
Speakers Association Magazine and many newspapers which
publish his weekly columns. Vincent holds the Certified
Speaking Professional designation that is earned by
fewer than 7% of all speakers worldwide.
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If results are important to you, then
Dr Vincent Muli Kituku is the speaker/trainer for your group.
Call
(208) 376-8724, or email Vincent directly at
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